ONLY ON-LINE MON - FRI OFFICE HRS. Please -NO MIND GAMES,LIES,or DECEIT.If you cannot be honest, dont even bother to list me as a favourite - you're wasting our time. Ladies, dont even bother to try and make contact - not that way inclined!! I love life, people, wide open spaces, the berg, the beach, the bushveld, the outdoors. I enjoy being with friends, sitting around a log fire in the mountains or on the beach watching the sun set (or rise), sipping sherry and/or wine with that special someone I want to be with. I love bubble baths, lots of candles and being able to chat openly. I am very broadminded, have a wicked sense of humour.I love being loved and love loving in return. I am sporty, sensual (guess due to a mix of French and Dutch blood !)Extremely passionate and love the physical touching, being together side of a relationship when I am with that someone special. This is what I miss not being involved with a special man! It starts with a phone call, the voice, a smile, a touch. And when I do meet that someone special, I am fully committed to him. I dont play games. I also do believe that each person needs their "space" at times as well. I am full of fun, quite daring at times and would love to meet someone who shares the same or similar ideals as I do. I have been told that I am always great fun to be with, the life of a party and easygoing (and have been told that I am much younger looking than my age!). What more would you like to know ? My two teenage daughters living with me are my world and naturally come first and foremost in my life and decisions I make. I am an ex-graphic artist,landed up being a legal secretary.Now in administration/secretarial/HR on a farm in the Karkloof/Midlands. Drop me a line !! If you are GENUINELY interested.Otherwise dont waste OUR time !!

This is not that easy. We all would like someone perfect/ideal and everyone is, lets face it, unique in their own special way! It takes a lot to make things gel in any relationship especially time and effort. It does not "just happen" overnight. But honesty, especially with me, is so important. He should rather be up front and honest than deceitful and hurt others in the process. I would like him to be funloving, caring, sensitive, considerate, passionate, physical, a romantic and someone who can laugh with me, share life with me, be man enough to cry with me and spend quality time together when possible. But I also do believe we both need our space as well. He must love the outdoors, sports, not be a couch potatoe. Must enjoy a romantic dinner either at home, in an intimate restaurant or even on the beach. We must be able to trust each other totally. I believe in honesty. Hopefully the relationship can grow and develop. Of course, the physical side is important. And there has to be chemistry, both mentally and physically. I enjoy showing affection to the man I love and I love him to be able to reciprocate. I would like him to be equally broadminded, full of life and fun, daring,loving, and ready to take on the world with me beside him, to be there for him. As mentioned before, we all are unique and would like to find a unique partner - I wonder if that is possible ?